About ECRC

I'm Peter O'Sullivan, interim convenor of East Cork Reclaim Childhood and a parent of children in 6th Class and 5th Class at Midleton Gaelscoil.

The aim is simple: help children delay social media access for as long as possible into secondary school, knowing that other children in their class are doing the same.

Why ECRC

Like many parents, I have become increasingly concerned about the effect that early access to social media can have on children — and about how difficult it is for individual families to hold the line when children believe that everyone else already has access.

East Cork Reclaim Childhood is an extension of the excellent work already being done nationally by Smartphone Free Childhood Ireland (SFCI) and others, and locally by the East Cork Smartphone Free Childhood Group and the school reps.

I was particularly inspired by the work of the East Cork Smartphone Free Childhood Group. The stories and experiences shared by parents through the wider Smartphone Free Childhood Ireland community have reinforced for me just how important it is to act before these pressures become established.

But it is parents who must take the lead. Governments can regulate and schools can support, but neither can make these choices for families. Parents can. And, above all, one of the most striking things about the very successful It Takes a Village initiative was its poster showing people physically together. That gets to the heart of Reclaim Childhood: parents supporting parents, children spending time together in the real world, and communities making it easier for families to choose a different path.

The solution has to happen locally

Parents need to mobilise together.

If enough parents in the same class, school and community make the same decision, delaying social media becomes much easier for everyone — particularly for the children themselves.

More than delaying social media

ECRC is about supporting the children who make that choice, helping parents support one another, and creating more opportunities for children to meet, play, take part in activities and enjoy their free time away from screens.

Kids need encouragement, not just rules

Telling a child "no social media" and leaving it there doesn't work. What works is encouragement: showing kids they're part of something, that other kids are doing it too, and that they're doing something brave and worthwhile. That's why our kids are Gen Alpha Rebels — the name comes from Jonathan Haidt and Catherine Price's The Amazing Generation. Rebels take on the Greedy Wizards who build apps to hook them. Our quarrel is with the Wizards, never with other children.

Replace screens with activity

Taking a screen away leaves a gap, and something has to fill it. The answer is simple: get kids out, active and together. Badminton, a cycle on the Greenway, a game in a local hall. Put a group of kids together and they'll do the rest. See what's on.

How it might work

1

Start in 4th class

Engage kids and their classmates as Gen Alpha Rebels from 4th class, before the pressure for social media really starts. A group that starts together holds together.

2

Celebrate every year

An end-of-year party for the Rebels in 4th, 5th and 6th class, run either for the whole region or school by school, whichever gets more kids there.

3

Carry it into secondary

Transition groups for Rebels going on to the same secondary school, so they walk into 1st Year already knowing they're not on their own.

Parent-led

This is run by parents and supporters, not by schools. Schools are welcome to help, but none is ever asked to take part, and parents can organise regardless.

Help shape what it becomes

The project is still at an early stage. The ideas on this website are a starting point, not a finished programme. Parents, schools and others across East Cork are invited to help shape what it becomes. Any group of parents who'd like to talk it over can get in touch to arrange a meeting.

Peter O'Sullivan
Interim Convenor
East Cork Reclaim Childhood